“When we can no longer change a situation, we are challenged to change ourselves.” -Viktor Frankl
Watch this: 4 Minutes and 22 Seconds that will change your thinking of others.
You see, we all too often look at people and see what we see, with all the limitations and judgment that go along with that perception. A better approach, as Frankl points out, is to promote them to what they really can be.  The challenge for us when we do so is not judging them on our lofty expectations, but giving them the room to grow to a level somewhere between where he is and what he could be.  He says, if we take man as he is we make him worse, but if we take him as he should be we make him capable of becoming what he can be. I love that.  Watch and enjoy.
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