You’re Further Down the Story Than Your Team

You’re Further Down the Story Than Your Team

By the time most leaders bring something to their teams, they’ve been living with it for a while. They’ve turned the idea over in their heads. Stress-tested it. Considered the objections, worked through the uncertainty, and arrived at something that feels...
Who Did You Decide to Be as a Leader?

Who Did You Decide to Be as a Leader?

Most leaders can tell you exactly what they need to accomplish. Revenue targets. Team goals. Initiatives to launch, problems to solve, metrics to hit. They’ve thought carefully about what needs to get done and how to get there. Far fewer have answered a...
The Illusion of Confidence

The Illusion of Confidence

There’s a version of confidence that looks exactly right from the outside. It’s decisive. It doesn’t waver. It projects certainty in situations where certainty is reassuring. It doesn’t ask too many questions, doesn’t invite too much...
Anger Isn’t the Problem — It’s the Clue

Anger Isn’t the Problem — It’s the Clue

When anger shows up in a leadership context — in a meeting, in a difficult conversation, in a team dynamic that’s slowly deteriorating — the instinct is almost always to treat it as the problem. Address the anger. Defuse it. Move past it. But anger is almost...