You Are Not Your Mistakes

You Are Not Your Mistakes

In my last post, we explored the dangers of taking on responsibility that belongs to others. Today, I’d like to go a step further: how do we relate to our own mistakes and internal narratives? How do we prevent the very mindset that drives leaders to over-fix from...
Understanding Before Fixing: A Leadership Shift

Understanding Before Fixing: A Leadership Shift

In the rush to resolve issues, many leaders move too quickly toward fixing a problem before they fully understand it. But clarity comes before resolution. In a recent coaching conversation, I asked a client what his goal was going into a difficult meeting. His answer:...